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# As the Beatles said, I say it’s my birthday.
- URL: https://www.europeans.today/2022/06/09/as-the-beatles-said-i-say-its-my-birthday/
- Published: 2022-06-09T00:35:00.000Z
- Updated: 2022-06-09T22:40:42.000Z
- Description: If only B. Jay Cooper’s wishes could come true... if only!
- Author:  B. Jay Cooper
- Tags: OPINION, Mass Shooting, United States

### If only B. Jay Cooper’s wishes could come true... if only!

  
###### First published: June 2022.

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I turn [72 today](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dhdOPhTHeoE&ref=europeans.today).

Lordy.

Let me get two things out of the way:

1. Getting older is way better than the alternative.
2. I’m luckier than most, I know. I have a fabulous, smart, loving wife. I have three great daughters who gave me six beautiful grandchildren one of whom gave me, so far, one adorable great-granddaughter.

Ok, moving along.

I had a good career with jobs that were fun, challenging and rewarding. I retired about eight years ago and adapted to retired life quite quickly. And, I’m very good at being retired; I think I found my calling!

I live in a fabulous location. I’m having a good life. I have issues all old(er) folks have: the hearing aid arrives next week; the cataracts were done a couple years ago; I had a stroke nearly 20 years ago that, thankfully, left few long-term issues.

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I have more doctors than I have shoes. And my annual visits to doctors now take about a month to fit in rather than the one-and-done annual physical of years ago.

In short, lots more people have a lot more to complain about than I do.

  
I do have a few complaints, but they’re really not about me:

- I wish our politics weren’t so divided and painful to watch
- I wish there were more of us who answer policy issues with *“let’s talk about it”* than those who respond with immovable *“yesses”* or *“no’s”*
- I wish kids weren’t brutally killed in their classrooms or anywhere for that matter
- I wish people were not brutally killed while they were praying or getting groceries or, again, anywhere for that matter
- I wish an 11-year-old girl didn’t have to smear herself with her best friend’s blood to survive a mass shooting
  
Mostly, I wish wishes came true.

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### **— AUTHOR —**

▫ *[B. Jay Cooper](https://www.europeans.today/author/b-jay-cooper), Former deputy White House press secretary to Presidents Reagan and George H.W. Bush. Also headed communications offices at the RNC, U.S. Department of Commerce, and Yale University.*

  
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##### Sources

**Text:** This piece was originally published in [The Screaming Moderate](http://www.bjaycooper.com/blog/as-the-beatles-said-i-say-its-my-birthday?ref=europeans.today) and re-published in PMP Magazine on 9 June 2022, with the author’s consent. | The author writes in a personal capacity. 
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